The flurries on your hair
Reminds me
Of the time
We were sundered
I hope the same flurries
Will unite us one day
Till then
I'll see the seasons changing
And time will engulf the pain
As that’ll be our forever
To be unified again.
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This is dedicated to my daughter.
If I were you
Every day’s be spring
All fragrances and nectars
Endlessly, I’d bring.
If I were you
There’d be love everywhere
Hugs, kisses and caresses
My unparalleled gear.
If I were you
Sunshine’d be your jewel
Swathed in stardust
Per moonlight we’d dwell.
If I were you
With every breath of mine
My heart and soul are forever
Coalesced with thine.
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Some years ago, I was stuck on a crosstown bus in New York City during rush hour. Traffic was barely moving. The bus was filled with cold, tired people who were deeply irritated with one another, with the world itself. Two men barked at each other about a shove that might or might not have been intentional. A pregnant woman got on, and nobody offered her a seat. Rage was in the air; no mercy would be found here.
But as the bus approached Seventh Avenue, the driver got on the intercom. *’ Folks,’* he said, *’ I know you have had a rough day and you are frustrated. I can’t do anything about the weather or traffic, but here is what I can do. As each one of you gets off the bus, I will reach out my hand to you. As you walk by, drop your troubles into the palm of my hand, okay? Don’t take your problems home to your families tonight, just leave them with me. My route goes right by the Hudson River, and when I drive by there later, I will open the window and throw your troubles in the water.’*
It was as if a spell had lifted. Everyone burst out laughing. Faces gleamed with surprised delight. People who had been pretending for the past hour not to notice each other’s existence were suddenly grinning at each other like, Is this guy serious?
Oh, he was serious.
At the next stop, just as promised, the driver reached out his hand, palm up, and waited. One by one, all the exiting commuters placed their hand just above his and mimed the gesture of dropping something into his palm. Some people laughed as they did this, and some teared up, but everyone did it. The driver repeated the same lovely ritual at the next stop, too. And the next. All the way to the river.
We live in a hard world, my friends. Sometimes it is extra difficult to be a human being. Sometimes you have a bad day. Sometimes you have a bad day that lasts for several years. You struggle and fail. You lose jobs, money, friends, faith, and love. You witness horrible events unfolding in the news, and you become fearful and withdrawn. There are times when everything seems cloaked in darkness. You long for the light but don’t know where to find it.
But what if you are the light? What if you are the very agent of illumination that a dark situation begs for?. That’s what this bus driver taught me: that anyone can be the light, at any moment. This guy wasn’t some big power player. He wasn’t a spiritual leader. He wasn’t some media-savvy influencer. He was a bus driver, one of society’s most invisible workers. But he possessed real power, and he used it beautifully for our benefit.
When life feels especially grim, or when I feel particularly powerless in the face of the world’s troubles, I think of this man and ask myself, What can I do, right now, to be the light? Of course, I can’t personally end all wars, or solve global warming, or transform vexing people into entirely different creatures. I definitely can’t control traffic. But I do have some influence on everyone I brush up against, even if we never speak or learn each other’s names.
*No matter who you are, or where you are, or how mundane or tough your situation may seem, I believe you can illuminate your world. In fact, I believe this is the only way the world will ever be illuminated, one bright act of grace at a time, all the way to the river.*
Author Unknown. How I wish the person who has written this finds to read this and take credit for sharing with us this beautiful lesson of humanity. In today’s life full of hustle and bustle, we tend to be so occupied in our own self, we rarely get to see or feel others. pity! We have lost the essence of humankind. This brings us all a message loud and clear, hope it’s understood. Cheers!!!
The act of forgiveness is a necessary and truly transformational process. One must be willing to forgive any person or situation that has caused you pain and release them.
By hanging on to old negative thoughts and emotions, we are only harming ourselves and attracting even more negative energy. The weightage we bear is beyond required. The extra baggage is inevitable.
It’s been said that when you are unwilling to forgive someone, it’s like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to get sick! So, just bless the person or the situation and wish them well. Forgive them, let them go, and be willing to forgive yourself as well, if need be.
“People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.”
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help, but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
– The paradoxical Commandments.
The word forgiveness itself says for-give-ness, which in a way means to give for the sake of goodness( this is my way of analysis, which is beautiful, isn’t it?)
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By acknowledging your positive past and releasing your negative past, you can make room for a beautiful future.
True forgiveness is extremely cathartic — it will cleanse you and set you free. It is an incredibly powerful process, one that will immediately shift you from a place of pain and anger to a higher vibrational frequency of love. It is definitely not as easy as I understand. Trust me, as I have been through this and even today experiencing this vicious circle almost every day– and I know to how much it hurts. That’s the catch. This hurt, this pain, this stigma is not what we deserve. We deserve peace, serendipity, love, joy, smiles, happiness, and abundance. Now, if we are jam-packed with undeserving emotions, how would we make room for the things that deserve? Bingo! Here we go, on a journey over a rough patch towards a red carpet. Are you all with me? 🥳🥳🥳
Love always❤️
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“Believe everything, trust nothing.” These words have the power to challenge the very foundation of our belief systems and our approach to life. In a world where information is readily available and misinformation runs rampant, it becomes increasingly important to critically analyze and question everything we encounter.
Blindly accepting information without scrutiny can lead us down dangerous paths, while an excess of skepticism can leave us cynical and disconnected. Striking a balance between belief and skepticism is crucial, as it empowers us to make informed decisions and navigate the complex web of truth and falsehoods that surrounds us.
Belief has always been a fundamental aspect of human existence. From religious faith to scientific theories, it has driven our progress and shaped our societies. Believing in something provides us with a sense of purpose and direction, making our lives more meaningful. It allows us to form connections with others who share similar beliefs, fostering a sense of community and understanding.
However, the danger lies in blind belief, where we accept information without question or critical analysis. This blind faith can be exploited by those who seek to manipulate or control others. History is filled with examples of leaders who abused their power, leading their followers astray by instilling unwavering belief in their words. From cult leaders to authoritarian regimes, these instances serve as stark reminders of the dangers of unquestioning trust.
To counteract blind belief, skepticism becomes vital. Skepticism is not inherently negative; it is an essential tool for discerning truth from falsehood. Questioning and critically evaluating information is crucial, particularly in an age where misinformation proliferates at an alarming rate. The rise of social media and the internet has made it easier for false narratives to spread like wildfire, and distinguishing fact from fiction can be challenging.
By embracing skepticism, we empower ourselves to think critically and independently. We develop the ability to ask probing questions, seek evidence, and evaluate information from various sources. In doing so, we become active participants in our own lives, taking responsibility for the knowledge we accrue and the beliefs we hold.
However, excessive skepticism can lead to a distrustful and disconnected existence. When we trust nothing and question everything, we risk becoming cynical and alienated from the world around us. It is imperative to find a balanced approach that acknowledges the potential for deception while maintaining an openness to new ideas and experiences.
Striking this balance requires a willingness to engage in critical thinking, rigorous research, and open-mindedness. It involves seeking multiple perspectives, recognizing our biases, and being open to changing our beliefs based on new evidence. This approach allows us to navigate the complex web of information that bombards us daily while maintaining a healthy level of skepticism.
The balance between belief and skepticism ultimately boils down to personal discernment. It is a continuous journey of learning, unlearning, and reevaluating our understanding of the world. It requires humility, intellectual curiosity, and an acceptance that absolute certainty is elusive.
In conclusion, “believe everything, trust nothing” encapsulates the delicate dance of belief and skepticism. Blindly accepting everything we encounter sets us up for potential manipulation and deception, while excessive skepticism can lead to cynicism and disconnection. Striking a balance requires critical thinking, an openness to new ideas, and an active engagement in the pursuit of truth. By embracing this delicate harmony, we empower ourselves to navigate the complex web of information, making informed decisions, and living a more fulfilled and purposeful life.
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Hey folks !!!
Just came across this line and read it many times to grasp the essence. So apt for today morning read-feed. Point to ponder for the day.
Now, if I understand rightly, in a world that constantly promotes limitless possibilities and endless potential, it can be difficult to accept the notion that we cannot be everything we desire. The idea that we can achieve anything if we put our minds to it has been ingrained in us from a young age, encouraging us to dream big and reach for the stars. However, the reality is far more complex, and the pursuit of being everything ultimately leads to a path of disappointment and failure.
When we think about being “everything,” we often envision a jack-of-all-trades type of person, someone who excels at multiple disciplines and possesses a wide range of skills. We imagine ourselves as Renaissance men or women who can effortlessly navigate through various domains and conquer any challenge that comes our way. While this idea may sound appealing on the surface, it fails to acknowledge the inherent limitations of being human.
We are bound by the constraints of time, energy, and resources, which means that we must prioritize and make choices about where to invest our efforts. When we try to be everything, we stretch ourselves thin, spreading our focus and attention across multiple areas. As a result, we become mediocre at best, unable to excel in any particular field. This dilution of our abilities hinders our progress and prevents us from truly mastering any one discipline.
Moreover, the pursuit of being everything often stems from a fear of missing out or a desire for validation and recognition. We may believe that by being well-versed in numerous fields, we increase our chances of finding success or gaining the approval of others. However, this mentality is flawed because it fails to recognize that true fulfillment comes from pursuing our passions and developing deep expertise in areas that truly resonate with us.
In his book “Essentialism,” Greg McKeown highlights the importance of focusing on what truly matters. By delving deep into our interests and selecting a few key areas to pursue, we can achieve a level of mastery and fulfillment that is unattainable when we try to be everything. Instead of spreading ourselves thin, we can invest our time and energy into a select few endeavors, allowing us to cultivate expertise and make a meaningful impact.
Additionally, the pursuit of being everything can lead to a constant state of comparison and dissatisfaction. As we constantly strive to be the best in every domain, we measure our success against others, fueling a never-ending cycle of self-doubt and anxiety. This relentless pursuit of perfection becomes exhausting and counterproductive, as it robs us of the joy and satisfaction that come from focusing on our own progress and growth.
The reality is that we are complex, multidimensional beings with unique strengths and interests. Rather than trying to be everything, we should embrace our individuality and pursue excellence in the areas that truly resonate with us. By acknowledging our limits and focusing on what truly matters, we can achieve a sense of purpose and fulfillment that is far more meaningful than trying to be everything.
In conclusion, the notion that we can be anything if we want to be everything is a fallacy that fails to acknowledge the inherent limitations of being human. We must accept that we cannot excel in every field and that true fulfillment comes from focusing on our passions and developing expertise in select areas. By letting go of the desire to be everything and embracing our unique strengths, we can find purpose and fulfillment in pursuing what truly matters to us.
So friends, with a goodbye note, I leave you to this soul-searching spot. I too sit beside you all here and take my journey to the self-analysis lane. Let’s meet again for another U-turn towards a new cognitive avenue.
Aloha!
It’s not your job to like me, it’s mine.” These simple yet powerful words encapsulate a profound truth – the responsibility of self-acceptance lies solely with oneself. Too often, we find ourselves yearning for the approval and validation of others, seeking external validation to define our self-worth. However, to truly embrace our authentic selves and lead fulfilling lives, we must grasp this vital concept.
To begin understanding this concept, we need to recognize that our self-worth should never be based on the opinions of others. The problem with relying on external validation is that it places our happiness and self-esteem in the hands of someone else. It gives others the power to determine our worth, and sadly, this power can be easily abused or taken away. True happiness and self-fulfillment can only be achieved when we take ownership of our self-esteem and decide that our opinion of ourselves matters more than anyone else’s.
In our quest for acceptance, we often manipulate our behavior, change our opinions, or sacrifice our own happiness just to fit into societal norms. We mistakenly believe that if we can win the approval of others, we will achieve happiness and a sense of purpose. However, this approach is fundamentally flawed. It places our self-worth in the hands of others, relinquishing control over our own lives. It leads to a never-ending cycle of seeking validation that can ultimately become a prison of self-doubt and misery.
Accepting responsibility for liking oneself requires a profound shift in perspective. It starts with recognizing our intrinsic worth, acknowledging that self-love and self-acceptance are essential foundations for personal growth. It is embracing the notion that our self-worth should not be determined by external factors such as the opinions of others, societal standards, or cultural expectations. Instead, our self-worth should be rooted in our own values, beliefs, and the unique qualities we bring to the world.
When we take ownership of liking ourselves, we begin to cultivate self-compassion. We stop seeking approval from others and focus on cultivating a loving and nurturing relationship with ourselves. This involves acknowledging our flaws and imperfections without judgment, embracing our strengths, and celebrating our achievements. Self-compassion allows us to foster acceptance and kindness towards ourselves, creating a solid foundation upon which we can build a fulfilling life.
Moreover, when we fully accept ourselves, we open the door for genuine connections with others. Paradoxically, by relinquishing the need for approval, we invite genuine connection and acceptance from others to enter our lives. People are naturally drawn to authenticity and confidence, creating opportunities for fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and appreciation. When we genuinely like ourselves, we attract people who genuinely like us for who we are.
Accepting that it is our responsibility to like ourselves grants us the freedom to be authentic. When we stop seeking validation from others, we no longer feel the need to conform to societal norms or fit into a mold that was never meant for us. We can embrace our quirks, embrace our unique perspectives, and find joy in our own individuality. By liking ourselves, we are giving ourselves permission to live an unapologetically genuine life
However, embracing self-acceptance and self-love does not imply arrogance or an ignorance of personal growth. It involves understanding that we are a work in progress, continually evolving and learning from our experiences. Accepting oneself is not an excuse for complacency or stagnation but rather an acknowledgment that our worth is not conditional on our achievements or external validation.
Furthermore, taking responsibility for liking ourselves empowers us to pursue our passions and dreams wholeheartedly. It enables us to step out of our comfort zones, knowing that our self-worth is not dependent on the outcome or the judgment of others. We become free to explore new opportunities, take risks, and grow as individuals without the fear of failure or rejection holding us back.
Acknowledging that it is not the job of others to like us liberates us from the shackles of seeking external validation. It empowers us to chart our own path, make decisions based on our own values, and lead lives rooted in authenticity. By embracing self-love and self-acceptance, we can cultivate a deep sense of fulfillment, foster meaningful connections, and unlock our fullest potential. So, let us take ownership of our liking and accept that it is our prerogative, not the duty of others.
In a world obsessed with external validation, it can be easy to fall into the trap of seeking others’ approval and affirmation. We believe that our value as individuals hinges on whether or not people like us. We become accustomed to altering our behavior, hiding our true selves, and compromising our happiness in the pursuit of being liked by everyone we encounter. However, this constant quest for acceptance is both exhausting and futile. It is time we embrace the idea that it is not their job to like us; it is ours.
Liking ourselves also means accepting our flaws and imperfections. No one is perfect, and striving for perfection will only lead to disappointment and self-loathing. However, when we take ownership of liking ourselves, we can learn to love our flaws and see them as part of what makes us beautifully human. Embracing our imperfections allows us to grow, learn, and become better versions of ourselves without the constant pressure to be flawless.
Moreover, liking ourselves does not mean disregarding personal growth or refusing to acknowledge our shortcomings. It means having the self-awareness and the courage to recognize our areas of improvement and work on them without attaching our worth to them. When we take responsibility for liking ourselves, we can pursue personal growth with self-compassion and understanding, rather than with self-criticism and harsh judgment.
By not relying on others to like us, we create space for authentic connections to flourish. When we are comfortable in our own skin and genuinely like ourselves, our relationships become more genuine and fulfilling. We attract people who appreciate us for who we truly are, rather than those who are drawn to a facade we create to please others. By taking responsibility for liking ourselves, we create an environment that allows for meaningful and genuine connections.
Understanding that it is not someone else’s job to like us also frees us from the burden of seeking constant validation. When we are continuously seeking the approval of others, their opinions can dictate our actions, decisions, and even our self-worth. We may end up living a life that is not true to who we are, simply to please others. When we recognize that it is our responsibility to like ourselves, we can make choices based on our own values, desires, and dreams. We can live a life that is aligned with our own authentic selves and pursue our passions without the fear of judgment or rejection.
Lastly, taking ownership of liking ourselves enables us to prioritize our well-being. When we recognize that it is not someone else’s job to like us, we can focus on self-care and self-love. We can prioritize our mental, emotional, and physical health without feeling guilty or selfish. Liking ourselves means understanding that our well-being is our responsibility, and we should not rely on others to give us the love and care we deserve.
In conclusion, it is not anyone else’s job to like us; it is ours. External validation is fleeting and unreliable, and seeking it will only lead to disappointment and an unfulfilled life. By taking ownership of our own self-acceptance and self-love, we empower ourselves to live authentically, embrace our flaws, pursue personal growth, and build genuine connections. We free ourselves from the burden of constant approval-seeking and open the door to a life that is truly our own. So, let us take responsibility for liking ourselves and create a fulfilling and authentic life on our own terms.
Love thyself! You are the best enough to be just the way you are 💕💕💕
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Flurries❄️☃️🏔❄️ The flurries on your hair Reminds me Of the time We were sundered I hope the same flurries Will unite us one day Till the...
